Erotic shopping in Paris: A decadent guide for curious travelers

Paris has always been the city of lovers—but beyond its candlelit dinners and classic seduction lies a darker, velvet-lined playground. For travelers seeking a more decadent side of the City of Light, Paris offers a discreet yet flourishing erotic shopping scene, where elegance, sensuality, and kink coexist in style.

Here’s your guide to five addresses redefining erotic luxury in Paris.

Vous Monsieur I Vous Madame — The Boutique Apartment for Erotic Aesthetes

Nestled in the Haut Marais, Vous Monsieur I Vous Madame is not your typical sex shop. It’s a concept store, an intimate place filled with high-end fetishwear, elegant harnesses, curated erotic books, handmade accessories, and even decadent gift boxes for your most secret occasions. Every piece has been selected with an eye for beauty and a respect for the body.

Private shopping sessions are available by appointment—and champagne is not optional, it’s encouraged. The boutique also hosts exclusive events blending performance art, photography, workshops, masterclasses, dating, and kink with Parisian finesse.
Some events and workshops are fully english-speaking.

Address: 18 Rue du Vertbois, 75003 Paris
Website: https://vousmonsieur.com/

Dollhouse — Feminine, Fluid, and Fetish-Forward

Want to spice up your intimate life? Our friends at Dollhouse are here to support you with kindness and zero judgment.

Nestled in the Marais on rue du Roi de Sicile, this chic little boutique blends sexy and elegance in an intimate, discreet setting.

The kind of place where you feel instantly at ease—free to explore, question, and leave all taboos at the door.

Website: https://www.dollhouse.fr/

Cris & Chuchotements — A Whispered World of Sensual Refinement

Pascal, the Master of the House, will be delighted to guide you through every corner of this refined space devoted to the Marquis’s games—where leather has long flirted with lace, and the cozy boudoirs of Madame de Pompadour meet the more decadent spirit of the Marquis de Sade.

Courtesy, elegance, and a strict dress code (libertine, fetish or BDSM) ensure that Cris & Chuchotements remains a privileged venue—where guests mingle, encounter, and explore one another always with discretion and mutual respect.

Single men may be admitted, provided they possess talent.

An all-black outfit is tolerated.

Website: https://cris-et-chuchotements.com/

Chez Augustin Marchand d’Vin — Wine, Whispers, and Wicked Encounters

Behind its cozy wine shop façade lies one of Paris’s most delightfully subversive secrets. Chez Augustin isn’t just about biodynamic bottles—it’s also a space of gathering for the curious and the kink-friendly. Regular themed tastings, and pop-up erotic art events turn this cellar into a celebration of pleasure and conversation.

Website: https://augustinmarchand.com/

Hell O Kinky — The Party Where Fantasy Comes Dressed to Kill

For over seven years, Hell O Kinky has been spreading joy, love, and good vibes all within one wild, decadent—and above all, welcoming—night.

Its success lies in its radically offbeat atmosphere, breaking codes and stereotypes with playful irreverence.

Think humor, hedonism, and a cozy-meets-crazy vibe.

Hell O Kinky is one of the rare truly cross-community parties that has succeeded in building a beautifully diverse crowd.

From the fetish and BDSM scenes to LGBTQIA+ folks, club kids, glittering unicorns, nightlife creatures, lovers of connection, and curious souls aged 18 to infinity—everyone is welcome.

Two dance floors bring them all together:
→ One, Berlin-style techno, with guest DJs straight from KitKat Club.
→ The other, delightfully eclectic: 80s/90s retro kitsch, rock, funk, metal—anything goes.

And let’s not forget the chill-out spaces… but we’ll keep those a surprise.

Website: https://www.hell-o-kinky.org/

Live Paris as it should be lived

Whether you’re a curious couple, a solo adventurer, or a well-heeled hedonist, Paris invites you to explore its elegant underworld. And unlike the Moulin Rouge clichés, this is a scene where the thrill is real, the people are kind, and the silk handcuffs come in black, burgundy, and custom gold.

What are you favorite addresses?